“A miracle! I’ve had so many troubles, and I’ve been praying for someone to help me, and here you are, at my door!” Meg quickly invited me in and proceeded to pour out her heart to me. Mostly she just needed someone to listen to her and to let her know that God still loved her.
We have so many beautiful stories of parish visitation. Not everything happens like the incident above, but every story, every soul, is special. “Make every soul count!” was an often-repeated motto of our Foundress.
Jesus knocks on the doors of hearts (Rev 3:20). He seeks out the straying sheep. He makes the first move; He doesn’t just sit back and wait for them to come to His door.
That’s what Parish Visitors do. We visit families, seeking out the straying, helping to bring them home to Jesus. We never know who will be behind the next door, and what their story will be. This is the new evangelization, not really new but dating from the Good Shepherd.
Children are the heartbreakers. So often the children are spiritually, emotionally and sometimes even physically neglected. They need us! They need to learn about God’s love for them and to love Him in return.We find so many of these children. Religious instruction of children and youth is also an important part of our apostolate. (More about this was in previous newsletters.)
What might people say when they open the door? 
Sure, some will say, “I’m not interested,” and quickly close the door, but others will say things like:
“I guess God hasn’t forgotten me, after all. You’re here.”
“Sister, I haven’t prayed for so long. I think I’ve forgotten how.”
“I said I’d never darken the door of the church again, but if God is so interested in me to send someone to my door, maybe I’d better think about it.”
“Come in, Sister. I’m new in the area, and I was wondering how to have my children instructed for First Communion.
“I’m Catholic and I’m not very religious myself, but I want my children to grow up the right way and to learn about God.”
“I don’t know if I can still call myself a Catholic. I haven’t been to Church in so many years.”
“Do you really think God still loves me, after all I’ve done?”
It’s exciting to visit families, for Jesus and with Jesus! Here are some excerpts from an article by one of our Sisters in first profession, Sister Debra Marie:
“Sister, I don’t think I can knock on a stranger’s door and enter into a conversation about our faith….” But, by two months after that statement, I had knocked on nearly 200 doors and entered into many meaningful conversations, and I joyfully shared with my Sisters how eager I was to go out again. What changed my perspective? The power of the Holy Spirit! By nature I’m rather shy. At first I accompanied an experienced Sister on visitation, and I began to see more clearly the need for this ministry; I began to want to go out to do this. I quickly learned that the Holy Spirit would lead me to those He wanted me to visit and that He would give me the words to say.”
Of course we’re trained for this apostolate and don’t begin until we’ve observed experienced Sisters and are ready. Our life of prayer gives power to our words, and our life of community strengthens us.
This applies, too, to our catechetical apostolate and youth ministry. Without the power of prayer, our words would be “noisygongs and clangingcymbals,” as St. Paul says. Mass and our daily Hour of Adoration are especially powerful!
SOME FAQs ABOUT VISITATION
Aren’t you afraid? Parish Visitors have been doing this for over 100 years in all kinds of neighborhoods, without incident. We are taught how to be prudent and careful, but being prudent is different from being afraid of visitation. We take the first step and go forth!
People know where the Church is. Is it really important to seek them out? We’ve heard of Jesus and the lost sheep. What if you lost something important to you? What if you lost your cell phone, for example? You wouldn’t say, “It’s OK, somebody will find it and bring it back to me.” That’s rather chancy, isn’t it! You’d retrace your steps, thinking where you last used it, search your pockets, your purse, the shrubbery along the sidewalk, every place you can think of. A soul is so much more important than that, isn’t it?
Aren’t you invading people’s privacy? No, we are gentle and non-threatening, never pushy. If people don’t want to open the door, that’s up to them. When they open it, they are choosing to speak with us.
Remember, Jesus is with us; we are His instruments in speaking with the people. Is God touching your heart to do this with us?
God’s blessings on your discernment!
Your Parish Visitor Sisters